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02 February 2013 @ 06:18 am
So I've been addicted to Dr Phil  
Latecomer I know.

But I live in a country where they don't air shows like that or not that I'm aware of.
I rarely watch reality TV (because most of them sucks) and the only one I keep up with was ANTM? (even that was partially scripted). Funny thing is I think I've heard Dr Phil mentioned in some songs that I was listening to

So I went on Youtube, click on the video about 'Mum hating Daughters' and ta-da there is where my hooking started. So I've been watching videos under the user who uploaded them and then I couldn't stop. It's showing a lot of those people who have issues with hate, self-rightousness, ego, denial etc are mostly due to insecurity issues.

I guess I was fascinated with the minds of the people who are going through issues that honestly shocked me at times, although yes maybe sometimes Dr Phil wasn't really be soft to some people but heck from where I am coming from we're freakin harsh and yeah I do think some people that he told off deserve some scolding.

What shocked me are rape cases by their own family repeatedly for YEARS and they come out courageous and so strong by it. Not even acting like a victim nor acting traumatic. Like seriously props to people like that. And after watching shows like that.. suddenly my problem (and the peoples' problem around) is like a small grain of sand compared to an ocean.

Makes me want to deal my problems with more dignity.

Yes I still can't stop watching Dr Phil and I sleep at late hours because my mind keeps thinking and keeps being curious about the minds of people that do the crimes/perpetrator and goes through all these problems. I couldn't comprehend how people would do the things they do (especially criminals) and I learn that enablers play a big part on letting these people commit their faults repeatedly.

It's just funny how the more problematic, weirdest, egoistic person can married and have children and still have people sticking to be with them while the nicest people in the world are still single. Maybe it's just .... hmm fate or time and circumstances?

Such a world we're living in.

I do read up on comments that a lot of people do not agree with Dr Phil's method but I do like him so far. And it certainly woke me up from my self-pity pool these days.
(Thought I'm still struggling with finding myself and connecting with people)